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From the earliest records of the history of man we have evidences of the respect of the living for the dead in the sacredness of the burial-place. Have not our sympathies leaped the gulf of time when we have read Abraham's appeal to the sons of Heth? "I am a stranger and a sojourner with you; give me possession of a burying place;" and the answer of the generous Hittite (when Abraham offers for the care of Machpelah an equivalent in money), indicating that a repository of the dead was not to be trafficked for: "Nay, my lord, hear me; the field I give thee, and the cave that is therein I give it thee. The land is worth four hundred sheckels of silver; what is that betwixt thee and me? Bury therefore, thy dead."
The natives of our own land linger with filial fondness at the
graves of their fathers. The most touching passages in their
eloquent remonstrances against their forced removals are those
that allude to their being driven far away from their burial
places.
Different nations have had different modes of disposing of their
dead, but whatever mode keeps their ashes near to us must preserve
bright and obvoius the links that bind us to the past, and suggest
to us the future. I have sometimes regretted that the manner
in which the Romans preserve their dead was not in use among
us, and have fancied an apartment in our dwellings where the
ashes of our friends, saved from the corrupting processes of
the grave, should be cherished in monumental urns. I have imagined
what, in this domestic cemetery, would be the effect on our spirits
of the solemn hour of twilight, of prayer, of midnight meditation,
of sacred music, of any of those holy influences that seem to
raise our spirits of the departed to mingle with ours here.
I have fancied the pleasure of pursuing our daily employments
with these hallowed memorials before us--of sewing, reading,
and writing in their presence, as if they were still among us.
I have calculated the power of appeals to the living in the
presence of their dead-to the impatient under the load
of life--to the sordid-to those eaten up with the cares of the
world-to the flippant and the vicious.
But this is idle. The customs of every age and country spring
from its actual condition; and in our country, most especially,
where nothing is stationary upon the surface, the dead should
rest beneath it. What would become of our domestic cemetery
in dwellings rarely tenanted by the same family for two successive
generations? What would become of the ashes of the fathers who
have died in Massachusetts, when their children move to the Valley
of the Mississippi, and their grandchildren, perchance, to the
Oregon?
But, we have our burial-places where generation after generation
is laid down, which we are sure will be guarded by the living,
for the parent, the child, the borther of yesterday are there.
Most persons have a favourite burial-place. Some prefer to
be enclosed in a tomb; others would rest in a vault, beneath
the consecrating walls of the church where they have worshipped,
"Where, through the long-drawn aisle and fretted vault,
The pealing anthem swells the note of praise."
We have heard of a lady (she must be of the Broadway genus) who
prayed to be interred in Trinity churchyard, "cost what
it might, for it would be lively there, and it would be so lonesome
out in the country!"
I cannot sympathize with the good lady. The city seems to me
the place for the living, not for the dead; for action, bustle,
pursuit, not for repose and high meditation on that "something
that cometh after." Neither do I fancy the vault of the
tomb: not that I object to the clannishness they express-for
the family on earth may be a family in heaven-but I do not like
the spirit of aristocracy and exclusiveness they sometimes indicate,
and which, with "all our legislating and talking about it,
not only clings to all the forms of social life, but passes the
threshold of the dead.

"God made the country," and there, on its open bosom, should be the hallowed place of final rest; there, where the spirit of God is visible in all the exquisite forms and ministries of nature-where His voice is heard from forest and grove. There, in the country burial-place, would I lie, amid my friends of all conditions, where the sod over me was freshened by the same summer showers that pattered on the roof I had loved in life-where the morning sun, as he comes over in my native hills, shining into the windows of the homes I love, shines also upon my grave, and the twilight that calls the merry boys to our village-greens sends its dewy sweetness over my resting-place.
My thoughts were turned to this subject yesterday by a walk
at noonday to an eminence that rises over the village of L_______,
and is surmounted (as the highest pinnacles of most old villages
in New-England are) by a church. A lovely scene lies outstretched
beneath this hill in L_______: the clear, bright, little village
beneath it, and far away
"To where the sky Stoops and shuts in the exploring eye,"
a glorious ampitheatre of hills-some sloped and rounded by nature
for the hand of the husbandman, and the steep sides of others
a dense mass of wood to their crested summits; and, deep set
in the valleys between these hills, villages unseen, but known
to the familiar eye by smokes arising from many a dwelling, and
amid this verdant framework, a little lake, whose reflections
have suggested its descriptive name, the Mountain Mirror.
The wide-spread landscape is dotted with orchards and every
insignia of country contentment. The sky yesterday was overcast
with light vapory clouds; here and there a slant sunbeam shone
down upon some little nook, like a sidelong glance of love, or
a stolen smile on a favourite. The air was soft and mellow as
it is on our pleasantest September days. After gazing on the
distant hills until my eyes ached, I looked down upon the earnest
groups that clustered in our village street, attracted there
by the interest of a capital trial, and I turned from them to
the cemetery at the side of the church, and for the first time
it seemed to me invested with the interesting associations of
a country burial-place. I have often looked on this place of
interment with a sort of shuddering. It is on the very summit
of a wet, bleak, gusty hill, where the very trees are piteously
bent by the north winds. It seemed to me the teeth of the poor
mortal fabrics must chatter, and their bones rattle as the winter
blasts swept over them. I like not a burial-place on a hill:
it is unsheltered, and looks obtrusive, and marvellously suited
to such glorifying inscriptions as the following, which is in
this same churchryard of L_______:
"Reader! expect the day which shall reveal to an assembled
universe the virtue and piety of Deacon J______ W_______ !"
But there is a burial-place towards which my heart yearneth,
and its yellow sands seem to me as they did to a fellow of my
acquaintance, who, being transported to a new soil, and seeing
there a coffin let into a wet grave, and thrust down amid intersecting
roots, cried out, "Oh, take me home, and bury me
in the nice warm sand at S_______!" In the valley enclosed
by mountains and overshadowed by a green hill that rises like
a protecting wall above it, how many friends (friends dear as
life) and familiar acquaintances are laid! In the centre of
this hallowed ground there used to stand two tall old pines.
Every silver whisper of their stems spoke to the soul.. They
have been cut down! Peace to him, for he was a harmless man,
who did this sacrilege, because, forsooth, his view of a flaming
red church was obstructed by there two mournful sentinels. It
was "most foul murder-murder and treason." *
Every little mound I tread upon in this burial-place recalls
some social or individual history. From my childhood I knew
those that sleep beneath it-the rich and the poor, the master
and servant, the good and bad. Here lie two enemies side by
side-their coffins touching-who could not eat at the same table,
breathe beneath the same roof, or worship God in the same church.
Where are now their strifes, their unbridled passions, their
unrelenting hate, their everlasting feuds!
"Underneath this stone lies J_____ M_______, Justice of
peace at all times and places" a little man, almost
as quiet in life as in death, who never made a broil, and notwithstanding
the claims of universal magistracy set forth in his epitah, never,
I believe, settled one.
Here, side by side, in three successive summers, were interred
three sisters. How excellent, how lovely and beloved they were
in life, how desolate they left their widowed mother, how each
was mourned by the surviver, their epitahs but half tell; for
I well remember when, with general sorrow, the village procession
followed one after another to the insatiable grave. Grief is
still here.
1. In justice to the good man (Doctor P_______) here alluded to, I am bound to publish his protest against the motive ascribed to him, which I quoted from common fame. There were objections made to those sacred old trees on the ground I have specified, but Doctor P_______ removed them lest the wind should sweep them down on the surrounding monuments. We must pardon this over-carefulness in consideration of the innumerable good .offices the doctor has done in our neighbourhoods. He yet survives, in his ninety-fourth year, with a memory so stored and accurate that he still corrects traditionary errors and settles uncertain landmarks.
Here lies one, brave and joyous in life, and most courageous
in death, who came
home, wasted and suffering, from foreign countries, to breathe
his last sigh in his native land. The last glimmerings of the
summer twilight were fading from the valley when his brothers
brought his body into the burial-place of his fathers. For long
and anxious months, his parents had prayed and wept for him,
but when they laid hom among his departed kindred, the voice
of praise and thankfulness, and not the cries of grief, was heard.
His gentle mother fills the next grave!
We buried our good old Colonel ________ here. He was of the
old regime, of those times when the gentleman did in his secret
soul believe that he was made of better clay than the "fellow."
Colonel _______ was the last relic among us of anti-revolutionary
and anti-republican days; the last surviving associate and boon
companion of those three notable gentlemen of Conneticut River,
real demigods in their day, but styled by their profane descendants
"River Gods." The colonel was loyal to the
King of England, and a Tory to his last day, because he believed
that truth and loyalty were one, and that orders were
Heaven's first law; but as the wave of the multitude rose and
covered one elevation after another, he submitted, with Christian
meekness, believing the people were made sovereign by the judgment
of Heaven upon the rebellion of man. Amid the familiarity and
rusticity of our village life, the colonel maintained his punctilious
politeness; and I remember, the ruling passion strong in death,
his last words-they were addressed to a lady weeping over him:
"Pray, madam," he said, "be seated." He
was a good man and true, and there, where rank is graduated by
merit, where there be angels and archangels, he may find himself
exhalted far above some to whom he would have given precedence
here.
Near the colonel lies a fair specimen of the old regime of the
softer sex: one who never dreamed of those degenerate days when
women explain the Mechaniques Celestes of La place, and rectify
the political economy of nations, but who, according to the elder
orthodoxy, spent her threescore years and ten in making pastry,
concocting sirups and sweetmeats, and exploring the culinary
arcana. Her ruling passion, too, was dominant in extremities.
I remember that, the nigh her husband died, she took one of
the attendants into her pantry to descant on the size, colours,
and quality of her pickles. When they came out he was gone!
A little farther on-for here, shame to us! the coloured people
are laid apart-we buried "old Joe." He would, if he
had dared, have protested against his location, for Joe was an
"extra exclusive" in life, and on his deathbed gave
his apparel to my friend _______, whom he considered the first
gentleman in the county, saying, "Pray accept my clothes,
sir, for I can't bare the thoughts any nigger should wear
them!"
And here is J.'s grave-J_______, the fiddler. How often have
young hearts, as well as feet, danced at the sound of J_____'s
fiddle. He was the Apollo of the country round. We thought
his violin might have realized the poetic imagination, "created
a soul under the ribs of death." Poor J_______! that fiddle
was most dear to him. He loved it first, last, and best, and
when he was actually dying, he begged his attendant to hold
his hand, that he might once more move the bow over the strings.
Like the swan, he expired in his own music.

And here lies one whose worth is truly recorded on this stone
by one who set it here to express the honour and gratitude they
owed her. No praise could exceed her due who filled a long life
with usefulness, and met her death with dignity and submission,
saying, as she bowed her head, "This is the last stroke,
and the best!"
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